Women usually love what they buy, yet hate two-thirds of what is in their closets. ~Mignon McLaughlin
I'm on a mission to update my closet. I feel like I have a more grown-up life now, living in my own place, working at my grown-up job (I discount the fact I could show up in sweat pants; even grown-up jobs need a little leeway), and need some "adult" clothes to show off my newly stated independence. Of course, there's always that undeniable fact that my closet space has shrunk by approximately 2/3rds. It might look like I'm complaining but really I'm ecstatic. I've been wanting to simplify for sometime now (clothes as well as other facets of my life), and having reduced space is just the swift kick I need.
The goal is to buy some solid pieces for spring/summer to update my wardrobe, throw out some stretched out tee's, and not dread getting dressed in the morning. I need things I can mix and match, and as Kat informed me the other day, I'm sometimes not so good at matching (I like to think that's done out of choice and not ignorance, although I'll sometimes admit to both).
Em has this relaxed but professional and put together sense of style I envy. I'm hoping our soon-to-be shopping trip will allow some of her expertise to rub off on me. I was that freshman girl in high school in wide-leg pants and extra large tee shirts and part of me has never truly outgrown that phase. I like to be comfortable and will choose comfort over style any day (honestly, who wouldn't?). Right now I'm sporting slightly worn straight-leg jeans, a black and green plaid zip down pullover with a hood, and a light blue three-quarter sleeve tee. See, the epitome of fashion.
What sparked this not-so-sudden desire to change my outward coverings, besides the magical shrinking closet, was a short shopping trip with Kat on Tuesday. We made a quick lap around the mall before heading to Marshall's, mostly to look at the housewares section and dream about decorating. I had decided a few weeks ago I wanted this summer to be the summer of skirts and flowing, girly clothes. Kat was present when I first made this declaration, so we headed to look at skirts and dresses. Long story short, I bought two (going almost double on my spending budget for the day). They are both longish, falling below the knee. One is black and white with a geometric pattern and the other is blue with a gauzy overlay and large schematic flowers skirting the bottom.
[no pun intended]
It's probably a good thing I don't get many new clothes because I was almost late for work trying on different combinations to find something that worked together. In the end I left feeling rushed and a lot less confident in this spontaneous purchase than I had hoped. I don't feel like I matched at all, pairing the blue skirt with olive and blue Tom's, and a coral colored top. Live and learn, right? I guess growing up in your wardrobe can be just as hard as growing up in other ways.
Any suggestions on how to pair things together and make smart spending choices? My friend Brit and I are going shopping tomorrow before celebrating her birthday with dinner, and while I doubt I'll purchase anything, I've learned it's not safe to promise such things.